Wedding plans can evoke feelings of excitement and happiness, but often stress too. There are so many decisions to make and an overwhelming to-do list. Often the bride-to-be can get caught up in the detail and forget to consider the most important thing – their groom.
It is no secret that men are less fussy with the details surrounding the wedding day, however it should never be assumed that they will be happy to be separated from every decision to be made.
This doesn’t mean calling them every time you get an idea during the day or texting them 20 photos of different flower bouquets; but simply asking them what they think of something or whether they have a better idea in mind.
Involving the groom in planning does not have to become a headache, but is simply a case of clear communication. Consider sitting down from the day dot and discussing what is most important to each of you, what you want to avoid, what you would like to have if resources allow and, of course, what you’re willing to compromise on.
At the risk of sounding like marriage counsellor, planning a wedding is one of the first major tasks and decision-making activities that a couple takes on together and can act as a practice for future joint decisions that a husband and wife will have to make.
So before you go asking your mother, your sister, your cousin, your neighbour, your work colleague and your best friend for their advice, consider checking in with the person with whom you will be sharing this special day – and the rest of your life.
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